Todhiye. Or something like that.

I was once told that I have no staying power. That when things stop working for me, I leave. My response? Duh. Why am I holding on to something that isn’t working? Well, a lot of people do, apparently. They stay in impossible situations because of duty, or virtue, or fear of letting go. Of […]

Taking chances

I consider myself a feminist and a nice person. But … every once in a while … I think and say things that are sexist, malicious, and downright disrespectful. I’ve been accused of internalised misogyny when I disagree with the views of my fellow feminists, which is fairly often. I’ve also been called mean-spirited for enjoying the […]

Proctrastipression

Noun: The ‘too numb to do anything’ stage of an MDD cycle. Writing is my life. It literally keeps me breathing. So one of the first signs of a depressive cycle is when I can no longer write. It comes in bits and pieces, because I work at an ad agency, so I’m generally word-ing every […]

How to break up

Step 1: Shockingly discover you’re about to get dumped. Step 2: Pre-emptively change your profile photos. Step 3: Call your (soon-to-be-ex) love and confirm your hunch. Step 4: Get ridiculously drunk. Step 5: Tell everyone involved. You know, family, friends, wedding guests … Step 6: Exist in a lost zombie break-up haze. This part takes a […]

Frozen

My blood runs cold with the pain of my broken heart. I drown myself in wool and soothing fabric… But still I feel  the chill. My skin peels with every sip of cocoa. I scratch it off with blame.   He used to call me his chocolate high. But now I’m low. The bean can’t […]